The rishta process is supposed to be exciting. A chance to meet someone. Build a future. Make your family proud. And maybe parts of it are exciting. But if you’re reading this, there’s a good chance it also feels like a second job you didn’t apply for, managed by a hiring committee you didn’t elect, […]
Month: May 2026
Scarcity Mindset in High-Achievers: Why Success Still Doesn’t Feel Safe
You are doing well. Not “doing well” as a polite deflection. Actually doing well. Stable income, people who respect you, a life that, if you described it out loud, would sound pretty good. And somehow, you’re still exhausted in a way that doesn’t fully make sense on paper. Not burned out exactly. Not depressed. Just… […]
When Everyone Relies on You: Caregiver Burnout and Emotional Exhaustion
You answer the calls. You remember the appointments. You keep the peace, manage the logistics, and somehow already know what everyone needs before they’ve said a word. And somewhere along the way, your nervous system quietly learned: there is no room for me to fall apart. If that sounds familiar, you may be experiencing caregiver […]
Eldest Daughter Syndrome in South Asian Families
You didn’t choose to become the family’s emotional manager. But somewhere along the way, it became the role you couldn’t put down, and you’re exhausted. There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t show up on a blood panel. It’s the exhaustion of someone who has spent decades being the responsible one, the one who […]