Arati Patel, LMFT

Arati Patel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering in-person therapy in Ventura, CA, and online therapy across California and Illinois. She specializes in helping high-achieving professionals with a focus on South Asian clients overcome anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, and cultural/family stress. Blending mindfulness-based practices, holistic approaches, and cultural understanding, Arati helps clients calm their nervous systems, quiet the inner critic, and build lives that feel aligned and sustainable. 📍 Learn more or book a free 15-minute consultation at www.aratipatel.com

Indian and South Asian Therapy | Themes, Support & Healing

Indian and South Asian Therapy | Themes, Support & Healing Hand making a circle with fingers while overlooking a river in India, symbolizing mindfulness, cultural roots, and South Asian therapyHand making a circle with fingers while overlooking a river in India, symbolizing mindfulness, cultural roots, and South Asian therapy

What Happens in South Asian Therapy? Reclaiming Your Story in a World That Doesn’t Always Understand It Indian and South Asian Therapy can be a lifeline when you’re walking between worlds. In South Asian therapy, clients often explore the tension between honoring family expectations and living authentically. You may have grown up navigating cultural expectations […]

What is Perfectionism?

What is Perfectionism? Woman standing on the beach with arms open, symbolizing freedom from perfectionism and self-criticism.

A Closer Look at the Need to Get It “Just Right” You might be wondering, “what is perfectionism?” Perfectionism is one of the core struggles I address in Anxiety, Perfectionism & Burnout therapy. When clients ask “what is perfectionism?” the answer often includes both the visible drive for success and the hidden fear of failure. It […]

People Pleasing – Are you a People Pleaser?

People Pleasing – Are you a People Pleaser? Woman standing by flowers and looking at them, symbolizing reflection on people-pleasing and self-awareness.

Finding Your Voice Without Losing Connection People-pleasing patterns often show up in clients I work with in Anxiety, Perfectionism & Burnout therapy . People-pleasing can be exhausting. On the outside, you might seem like the reliable one: the caretaker, the peacemaker, the one who “has it all together.” But inside, you might feel depleted, anxious, […]

Healthy Boundaries vs. Unhealthy Boundaries

Healthy Boundaries vs. Unhealthy Boundaries “Gate opening to a long road at sunrise, symbolizing healthy boundaries and new possibilities.”

Boundary struggles are a frequent theme in Anxiety, Perfectionism & Burnout therapy. Boundaries are not just about saying “no” or creating distance; they are the foundation of self-care, respect, and healthy relationships. By recognizing the difference between healthy and unhealthy boundaries, you can reclaim your personal space, protect your energy, and cultivate relationships that honor […]

Understanding Imposter Syndrome and How to Overcome It

Understanding Imposter Syndrome and How to Overcome It Mask lying on the ground, symbolizing imposter syndrome and hiding your true self.

Understanding Imposter Syndrome and How to Overcome It: Embracing Your True Potential Imposter syndrome occurs when an individual experiences an internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud despite evidence of competence and accomplishments. This psychological pattern can be highly debilitating. It can prevent individuals from recognizing their true worth and can hinder personal and […]

Quick Guide to Navigate Out-Of-Network Mental Health Insurance Benefits

Quick Guide to Navigate Out-Of-Network Mental Health Insurance Benefits Woman on the phone looking at a laptop, symbolizing calling insurance to ask about out-of-network therapy benefits.

Insurance can be confusing, especially when you’re trying to figure out if therapy will be covered. The good news? Even if a therapist isn’t “in-network,” many plans still reimburse part of the cost. That means you may be able to choose the therapist who’s the right fit for you and get money back from your […]

What is High-Functioning Anxiety?

What is High-Functioning Anxiety? Woman smiling while talking on the phone, symbolizing high-functioning anxiety hidden beneath a successful appearance.

High-Functioning Anxiety High-functioning anxiety often leads clients to seek Anxiety, Perfectionism & Burnout therapy. High-functioning anxiety describes a hidden struggle, where someone appears successful and composed on the outside, yet feels overwhelmed, restless, and on edge internally. As such, you might be the go-to person at work, the dependable friend, the high achiever. However, you […]

6 Most Common Types of Anxiety Disorders

6 Most Common Types of Anxiety Disorders Woman sitting on a couch with a pillow in front of her face, symbolizing anxiety and emotional overwhelm.

6 Most Common Types of Anxiety Disorders Anxiety is a normal emotion; everyone experiences it to some degree. However, if you find yourself constantly panicking, stressed, overwhelmed, or flooded with dread, anxiety may now have become a problem in your life. Let’s take a closer look at the 6 most common types of anxiety disorders: […]

Are You a Perfectionist? Signs, Causes, and How Therapy Can Help

Are You a Perfectionist? Signs, Causes, and How Therapy Can Help Close-up of a woman threading a needle, symbolizing perfectionism and pressure to get everything exactly right.

Introduction Do you find yourself double-checking every detail, holding impossibly high standards, or beating yourself up over the smallest mistakes? If so, you may be struggling with perfectionism. Perfectionism often hides behind success, it looks like ambition, responsibility, or discipline. But underneath, it can feel like constant pressure, anxiety, and the quiet belief that nothing […]

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