+ What is grief?
Grief in itself a bit hard to define. It is an emotional response (generally lots of confusing mixed emotions) to the loss of someone or something that was known to us. Grief also shows up when we experience life transitions or change in our lives.
+ Some events that may trigger grief:
Becoming a parent
Graduating or ending school
Injury to the body
Change in health or illness
Parent becoming sick or ill
Illness or new health diagnosis
Death of a loved one
End of a relationship
Loss of a job
Having a child
+ During the grieving process, it is normal to experience a wide range of emotions.
Anger or irritability
Sadness or crying
Feeling numb or empty
Shock or feeling frozen
+ It's important to remember that everyone experiences grief differently.
Grief has no set time limit and can be short or long lasting. Grief never really goes away but it can become more tolerable to deal with as time goes on.
+ There are five stages to grief: Depression, Anger, Denial, Bargaining, and Acceptance.
There is no set order to the grieving process. One may go through the stages once or multiple times in any sequence. Many times friends and family will try to "fix" you by providing you with advice or solutions to what you are feeling. However, you are the only one that knows your grieving process and what is helpful to you.
+ Therapy can help!
Therapy can be helpful to help identify where you are in your grieving process, process your emotions, and navigate this painful time so you can work towards rebuilding your identity and reclaim your power and strength so you may continue on your path and life journey. I have received training as a Grief Specialist and would be honored to help guide you through this difficult life transition.